Sunday, February 25, 2007

Happy Days!!

This weekend was great fun. Why? Because I learned a lot of valuable skills in an intensive speaking workshop put on by a top trainer in my company Stuart Tan. I was so cheerful during and after the workshop because I discovered a lot about my own speaking skills, both the strengths and the weaknesses. Because Stuart gave feedback frequently, I came to know many of my blind spots in terms of my speaking skills (like, I don't stand straight sometimes, my facial expressions don't follow my voice expressions, I need to learn more types of hand gestures an extend my range of guestures.) I learned that my best asset for speaking is my voice. I have different accents, sounds effects, and vocal variety. So now the challenge is to get the rest of the body up to speed :D The workshop was 9-730pm and the class (10 of us) got many chances to speak and get feedback. Extremely useful!! Lurved it!

Afterwords on Saturday, I went to parade called Chingay. Chingay is a street festival that was just made up to attract tourists...so there is no real purpose...and it's not a real street party. There was lots of music and performers..but not everyone was dancing on the streets..and plus it was super crammed.


This week is significant to you as it is the first week I have made a big decision in my life to commit towards being a full time trainer at AKLTG. Though it's not for sure if I'll become one, I just know that I MUST be a trainer in order for me to further my career. Actually I feel quite scared because I'm putting myself on the line saying that this is what I TRULY want ..and not excepting anything less. I've done so many goal setting exercises and training and teaching always pops up. I believe, if there is a will, there's a way. So no matter what challenges come my way...what pains come, I will stand tall and FIGHT!

More details to follow.


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Sunday, January 21, 2007

Can I rant? ...Ok I am going to.

Have a become cynical of AIESECers? It's election time here in AIESEC in Singapore, which only means one thing - election speeches. And upon hearing election speeches from the leadership candidates. Today I heard TWO kind of speeches: 'The Good S#iT' and the 'Full of $hit' speeches. Perhaps it's my experiences in Toastmasters, and in the "grounded' working world, but so many speeches in Aiesec are just full of empty promises and overused ideals (improving society, making more life-changing experiences). Yah i know Aiesecers can't help talking like this, it's in our organisation's culture to talk this way; however, if one wants to really connect with an audience use stories of personal hardships. Stories illustrate points beautifully and eloquently.

And I have to rant about how in (in)efficient AIESEC is here in Singapore...(and in Canada a bit...and the globally of course) The formalities of elections (ie. speeches, and voting) of candidates all which ran unopposed took WAY WAY too long. Ok let me explain why I this annoys me.
  1. Time is Precious. Especially in the working world, every second is (hopefully) used efficiently...and we wish we had more of it...way more of it. To students (yes i can relate), time is something which is used without consideration for other non-students.
  2. A disrespect for keeping to the schedule. Ok from Toastmasters I've learned that if you start late because you're waiting for people, is that it is very disrepectful for the guests who may have other plans after the meeting. In AIESEC, we never start nor end on time, this causes huge frustrations for me because it is inconsiderate and show unprofessionalism.
Why am i frustrated? Well, the fact the I'm using up so much energy for ranting is because I really care about AIESEC, even as an intern. I'm sure many other trainees share the same frustrations I do plus more, but we stay involved because we all believe that the young AIESECers will learn these life skills just like I have and still am.

Yes I agree that this frustration is not very useful, but if students realize this limitation how they run the organisation, then we'll start seeing some real changes. Please change! I'm changing too!

Man, I'm getting old. But I'm still young and naughty. Hehe.

Rant Over. Stay tune for more inspirational posts soon as I prepare to write a motivationa/inspirational speech for Toastmasters....

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